Humans Who Forgot How to Be Human

Stephanie France, Founder, WDIB

I recently watched a minor disagreement on social media explode, shattering a milestone event for a family. It was a stark reminder: in our collective rush to be heard, we’ve forgotten how to be human.

We live in a culture that screams for respect and validation, yet we often fail to offer the same to those closest to us. We are trapped in an "it’s all about me" cycle, moving through life in complete disregard for the people who matter most.

I see so many people rushing to move abroad, seeking a total life reset. But here is the hard truth: if you pack your same abrasive behaviors along with your favorite shirts, you will only be replicating the life you are trying to escape. I know, you’ve heard this before. But it bears repeating because our tolerance for one another is at an all-time low. Anger, abusive communication, and hostility have become the "new normal".

While it is necessary to be comfortable in your own skin, the idea that "no man is an island" remains a fundamental truth. We were not designed to be solo acts. Pets, hobbies, and digital distractions are poor substitutes for the depth of human connection - the shared laughter, the raw love, and even the tears shed with another human being.

The Challenge: Before you look for a new country, look for the "weeds" in your current relationships. Are you fighting for sovereignty, or are you just fighting for the last word?